Feel like you’re the only person who hasn’t figured out how to optimize their way through this weird time? You are not, says writer Nora McInerny.

No matter where you are in life and no matter what your particular kind of blue, please know that you’ve got company. Here are six talks that your friends at TED have picked for you.

Mourning the loss of a loved one isn’t efficient, compact or logical, says writer Nora McInerny. She explains why.